Bunting - a really easy way to add that 'handcrafted' touch to your venue!

Bunting

This can be a really inexpensive way to ‘uplift’ a venue, if you make it yourself!  Typically a really nice piece of personalised bunting can cost you £5 a triangle or basic ‘off the shelf’ cotton bunting £10-£15 for 10 meters.  If you make it yourself you can cut this cost by at least 2/3rds if not more.  

You will need:

Patterned fabric of your choice, ideally to match your colours and theme.   You can buy these in quarts, ready cut squares or if you are alternating between two colours the cheapest way is per metre.  Ebay is a great place to start searching, but can be expensive.  Check out your local fabric shops, markets first and if you are feeling flush then some John Lewis stores stock lovely fabrics.

Binding ribbon (at least 40mm wide)

Threads

Felt (for letters)

Embellishments

Decorative ric rac ribbon, satin ribbon or lace ribbon

Embroidery thread.

Method (for basic bunting):

Take your strip of fabric, double the length you want your bunting to be.  I suggest that this is at least 50cm (to make 25cm bunting) which is a good size for decorating a large room, go smaller for a more intimate setting. 

With the roll ends vertical to you, lay the fabric so the right side is facing up towards you. 

Make sure your edges are perfectly straight and fold the fabric over in half, along the long edge, so raw edge should meet raw edge.

Iron along the fold (both the ‘right’ sides of the fabric should be facing each other)

On the folded edge measure every 22cm and make a mark with a fabric pencil

On the raw edge, make the first measure at 11cm and then every 22cm after that.

Draw lines between the points, making triangles.

Using some good fabric scissors cut along the lines, pinking scissors are good to use here as they prevent fraying.

Using pins secure both sides of the fabric together, one-three pins should be enough, depending on how proficient you are on a sewing machine.

On the triangles that still have a folded edge, cut along the fold to separate the pieces.

Option 1: Clean edge bunting, best for larger, cotton flags.

Then take all the pieces to your sewing machine, and with the ‘wrong’ side facing outwards (I once made a whole strip the wrong way! Grrrr) sew along the two long sides of the triangle to the point.  DO NOT SEW the short edge.

Once you have sewn all the triangles, turn them inside out (which is why you didn’t sew the short edge) using a pencil to push out the point.

Iron each triangle so it’s nice and flat

Option 2: pinking edges bunting; best for narrow flags and thicker fabrics

Take the cut flags to the sewing machine and place with the ‘right’ side facing outwards, towards you on both flags (wrong sides touching each other).

Sew a good centimetre from the edge of the flag

Take your pinking scissors and cut up to the sewn edge, but be careful not to snip your lovely stitching.

Continue…..

Get your binding ribbon, fold in in half, length ways and if you like iron along the crease

Put your triangles with the raw edges, in-between the fold of your binding ribbon and pin to secure them in place. Space your triangles as you feel fit. Do this until all the triangles have been placed.

Sew a clean line along the binding ribbon securing all triangles in place; if you want extra strength do a second sew a few millimetres above the first.  You now have your bunting!!

For more elaborate bunting with letters and embellishments, I like to use piece of felt for the back or in-between in you are making a double sided bunting.  I cut out equal sized triangles of fabric with pinking scissors and sew on my decorative ribbon, embellishments and letters before securing to the felt with more running stitches and then onto the bunting.  This method is much lengthier, but is very effective.

In these pictures I have used cotton photo fabric, personalised with our own photos.  This is unique to the handcrafted wedding.  If you would like me to make your own cotton, photo bunting then get in touch: joannamcastor@gmail.com (my website www.bespokebunting.co.uk is currently under construction), prices start from £18 for 12 flags (6 photographed, 6 pattern/plain)

The Venue (decorations) and rooms

To complete the whole ‘venue’ package the final thing to secure is the decorations of the venue itself.  Here is where you can really let your creative juices flow.  The first step is to take a really honest look at your venue.  The best decorative embellishments I have seen are those that seamlessly match the ‘style’ of the venue.  So for a contemporary venue, the contemporary decorations and for a classic/period venue then a vintage look works very well.  Having said that, I nice eclectic mix of old and new can also look very striking.  For those new to the whole wedding planning scene here are a few basic things you can expect to have as decorations:

·         Flowers for the tables

·         Table covers

·         Chair covers

·         Napkins, paper or cotton.

·         Seating plan

·         Name cards for the table

TIP: Where you can try always ask the venue if they could supply these to you free of charge.  For weddings they will want to charge you extra for the use of table cloths and napkins.  However, any decent venue is likely to have all these ‘in stock’ for corporate events and Christmas parties, if not then they are also likely to have better deals with suppliers.  Also, a good point here is to remember what the venue told you when they were justifying the increased menu price from standard event to wedding.  They are more than likely to have said they have additional costs associated such as, table dressing.  Catch them here if they then request you are paying extra for cloth napkins, name cards and printed seating plans.   If they won’t absorb the cost ask if they can let you have them for cost price. This could save you about £500.

These are the basic things, and you can do much more such as:

·         Star light back drops

·         Swags

·         Fairy lights

·         Bunting

·         Lanterns

·         Disco floors

·         And much more…..

You can out-source all this to a company, who will take care of it all.  In south Yorkshire the price for this (as of 2013) is £1000-£1500 per venue.  However, as this is the ‘hand crafted’ wedding I am here to give you some tips about how to do it yourself! With some useful links to other peoples Vlogs, which I have found useful along the way. Keep reading this blog to find out more!

The Drinks

‘A glass of wine and I’ll be fine’

I have to say that the one thing I am most looking forward at my own wedding is that first glass of cool, bubbly prosecco.  The guests, unless they are T-Total, will probably join me in that. 

When I was looking for venues, I came up with this saying (I have no idea why I put it in German, it just came out that way!) Hunger, Pee pee, Durst!  I had come to the conclusion that if my guests are well fed, had nice loo’s to frequent and had drink then they would be content.  As we have already covered the food, here are my top tips for the booze:

1.    Bring your own!

Check with your venue if you are allowed to supply your own wine/booze.  Most venues will charge corkage-expect £10 per bottle for wine and £16 for prosecco and champagne.  This is expensive, as this is almost pure profit so it might be worth having a go negotiating this down.  If you are wine buffs and want to serve up some very nice wines/champagnes then this will probably work out cheaper for you.

2.    Break down the ‘drinks package’

Just because the venue have labelled up ‘drinks package’ don’t be fooled into thinking you are getting a fair price.  Break the package down so you can see what the price per glass is.  For example : £25 per person drinks package includes, 1 x sparkling wine on arrival,  2 x glasses of wine with the meal and 1 x sparkling wine to toast.  This works out an average £6.25 a glass.  Ask ‘what is the wine?’ from the wine menu and ‘what is the sparkling wine?’.  Then, what are they classing a glass standard 175ml or large 250ml? Sparkling wine, champagne is usually always 125ml.  Look at the advertised ‘menu’ price of these wines per glass and see if you are paying extra, if you are then you have your cue to negotiate.

3.    Buy by the bottle it may be cheaper!

Once you have done the above step it is a logical progression to see if buying the bottle is cheaper.  Rule of thumb is 750ml bottle of champagne will give you 6 glasses and 750ml wine will give you 4 glasses.  This is how I approached my venue and it has saved us £600 on alcohol costs from ‘the package’.  Not only did I ask the venue to charge me by the bottle (which was MUCH cheaper at £22 a bottle instead of £37.50) but I also asked for discount.  I managed to get even more money off.

4.    Don’t forget the kids, designated drivers or plain healthy T-Totals!

It is also a good idea to ask the venue to supply plenty of jugs of water, squash and orange juice. That way everyone can stay hydrated and guests don’t have to battle through a busy bar to just get a squash or glass of water.

5.    Be Creative!

Don’t let the standard drinks package stop you being creative! I love these Prosecco Pops! Really fun! But there are loads of other ideas out there that you can add your individual style to. Margaritas, Mojitos, the world is your cocktail bar!

The Food

After you have decided a venue, a season, a date and the times of the wedding then next step is to sort out the nitty gritty of menu choses, drinks packages and planning decoration and entertainment.

The food 

Now this is where my major bug bear comes in and where I start to stand on my soap box.  I have lost count of the times I have experienced the following: menu choice for corporate or family event, five courses priced at £27 per head, the same menu for a wedding is £55 per head.  Is it just me or does that make your blood boil? It is consumerism gone mad.  My first rule before confirming anything with a venue is to enquire or research (as most venues will publicise menus) the corporate/non-wedding price of a 3, 4 or 5 course meal.  When you talk to them about weddings and when you notice the price is extra, simply ask what extra am I getting?   If they say nothing, then ask simply state that the advertised price for that menu is X, you are clearing a profit with that so what extra are you seeing for your additional pennies?  This will at least force a conversation about fair pricing and start the negotiation.  I have often in the conversation managed to get table decorations supplied, canapés, additional sorbet course and petit four instead of chocolate.  A good tip here is to think ‘more’ instead of ‘discount’.  Be warned, not all hotels/venues will negotiate and be prepared for a ‘computer says no’ response.  It is then your choice then whether to proceed with that venue but be aware of their inflexibility on price.  We chose our venue, the Rutland Hotel in Sheffield, because they beat the other competitors on the basis they listened to me and were flexibly to my needs.  Hotels that listen to you make you feel like they care, these are the ones that are going to really look after your big day!

The next tip is use the power of economies of scale.  Before, yes BEFORE the venue know your wedding figures find out the price they will give you per head for a menu.  This is tricky as most ask straight away but keep it up your sleeve.  For example, David and I are having 150 guests.  We knew before looking we were having 150 guests, I told the venue we were looking at about 75-80.  When we agree the price, I then explore what could happen if we have more people.  If we ended up inviting 125 could we get a better price? And what if that was 150?  Again, if there is no discount can you up sell to a better menu? I managed to upsell the menu and reduce the price saving us £900 (it all counts!)

With the food, just like everything else what is a must, should and could?  Do you really need seven courses or will 4 do?  Do you even need a formal sit down meal? Have you considered a hot buffet?  For the evening, if you are laying food on for evening gests when will you feed them?  Most weddings I have been to the wedding ‘breakfast’ and evening the food comes out and you are so stuffed you don’t want any.  So make sure you can negotiate with the venue that you only pay for a proportion on the day guests, a good rule of thumb is between 60-75% and all the evening.  Also, before you get sucked into the crazy world of wedding just take a reality check.  I once saw a wedding package from a hotel that quoted me the price of a roast pork sandwich as £14.95 per head! In the world of weddings you may hear yourself saying ‘oh, that’s cheap’! STOP!  If you rolled up at your local butchers/greggs and they charged you £15 for a pork sandwich, what would you say?  This where I refer to the previous blog ‘the right mind set’, weddings are vital business for hotels that help them sustain business in quieter periods, so some additional margin is to be expected, however let’s not call in the bailiffs yet.  Talk to the venue about their pricing, be honest and say it’s highly expensive and you don’t feel the price point is fair for the product, can we find a mutually agreeable price?  This all has to be done BEFORE you have paid your deposit, or else you will be trying to shut the door once the horse has bolted.